What's a Modern (Straight) Girl to Do?"
I thought this was extremely interesting. I love Maureen Dowd. Is she married? If she is looking, she can marry me. I am not threatened by smarts or sarcasm.
About the return to the 1950s in terms of men and women interaction and dating rituals. ... Act like a mysterious cat. Men like shiny things....
A few years ago at a White House correspondents' dinner, I met a very beautiful and successful actress. Within minutes, she blurted out: "I can't believe I'm 46 and not married. Men only want to marry their personal assistants or P.R. women." I'd been noticing a trend along these lines, as famous and powerful men took up with young women whose job it was was to care for them and nurture them in some way: their secretaries, assistants, nannies, caterers, flight attendants, researchers and fact-checkers...
Men, apparently, learn early to protect their eggshell egos from high-achieving women. The girls said they hid the fact that they went to Harvard from guys they met because it was the kiss of death. "The H-bomb," they dubbed it. "As soon as you say Harvard Business School . . . that's the end of the conversation," Ani Vartanian said. "As soon as the guys say, 'Oh, I go to Harvard Business School,' all the girls start falling into them."...
While I never related to the unstyled look of the early feminists and I tangled with boyfriends who did not want me to wear makeup and heels, I always assumed that one positive result of the feminist movement would be a more flexible and capacious notion of female beauty, a release from the tyranny of the girdled, primped ideal of the 50's. I was wrong. Forty years after the dawn of feminism, the ideal of feminine beauty is more rigid and unnatural than ever... as more and more women embrace Botox and implants and stretch and protrude to extreme proportions to satisfy male desires. Now that technology is biology, all women can look like inflatable dolls. It's clear that American narcissism has trumped American feminism...
What I didn't like at the start of the feminist movement was that young women were dressing alike, looking alike and thinking alike. They were supposed to be liberated, but it just seemed like stifling conformity. What I don't like now is that the young women rejecting the feminist movement are dressing alike, looking alike and thinking alike. The plumage is more colorful, the shapes are more curvy, the look is more plastic, the message is diametrically opposite - before it was don't be a sex object; now it's be a sex object - but the conformity is just as stifling.
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MOOD: pretty disgusted and dismayed
SOUNDS: Madonna - "Bedtime Stories"
posted by Maverick @ 8:06 PM
3 People felt compelled to leave their vast wisdom
Personally, I think Maureen Dowd is a hotty, but she probably scares men off with her negative and disingenuous sarcasm, not her smarts. It would be difficult to be intimate with someone who's always criticizing the other sex in stereotypical terms - precisely the thing she wants men to stop doing.
LOL for me, that's the biggest turn-on!
More importantly... I understand your point. Critics are by nature boring and obnoxious, myself included. But, I agree with her perspective, and moreover I relate to it personally. In this article, the tone is more critical of women who've bought into the status quo, either then or now all over again. And, I think what she says, though critical, is true. And, as she mentions, when telling of (if I remember correctly) Bill Maher's comment that "Women want someone they can talk to, men just want women to shut up." She referred to his comment as blunt but more USEFUL. I also believe the comment is true. So, all around goodness to stimulate the mind about our troubled society.
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